The Military Child Well-being Toolkit

The MCEC Military Child Well-being Toolkit has been created to provide accessible social-emotional supports and resources directly to parents, educators, school counselors, administrators, and other youth-serving professionals working with military-connected youth.

– Nelson Mandela

SOCIAL AWARENESS: The ability to understand the perspectives of and empathize with others, including those from diverse backgrounds, cultures, & contexts.

Social Awareness includes the capacity to feel compassion for others, understand broad historical and social norms of behavior in different settings, and recognize family, school, and community resources and supports. Students can navigate relationships better if they can take on other perspectives, appreciate diversity, recognize others’ emotions, demonstrate empathy, show respect towards others, and understand how to read common body language and facial expressions. The use of role play or “walking a mile in someone else’s shoes” often helps students to understand differing perspectives and life experiences, such as:

  • Seek other perspectives
  • Identify other people’s strenths
  • Practice empathy and compassion
  • Show concern for others’ feelings
  • Practice gratitude
  • Discover and realize diverse social norms
  • Recognize situational demands and opportunities
  • Understand the influences of organizations/systems on behavior
– Karen Pittman
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Disclosure Statement: These tools are not intended to be a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always seek the advice of your physician or other qualified health providers with any questions you may have regarding a medical condition. Never disregard professional medical advice or delay in seeking it because of something you have read on this website.

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