Responsible Decision-Making
RESPONSIBLE DECISION-MAKING: The ability to make caring and constructive choices about personal behavior and social interactions across diverse situations.
Responsible decision-making impacts every aspect of our lives including our ability to consider ethical standards, safety issues, and evaluate benefits and consequences of various actions for personal, social, and collective well-being. The goal is to build a strong sense within the decision-making process with confidence. Choices allow for growth opportunities, by minimizing impulsive decisions, reflecting on the natural consequences (social awareness), considering alternate paths to a successful solution, considering personal motivations and being willing to accept responsibility when a course of action needs to be corrected.
Such as:
- Demonstrate curiosity and open-mindedness
- Identify solutions for personal and social problems
- Learn to make a reasoned judgment after analyzing information, data, and facts
- Anticipate and evaluate the consequences of one’s actions
- Recognize how critical thinking skills are useful both inside & outside of school
- Reflect on one’s role to promote personal, family, and community well-being
- Evaluate personal, interpersonal, community, and institutional impacts
“Watch your thoughts, they become words; watch your words, they become actions; watch your actions, they become habits; watch your habits, they become character; watch your character, for it becomes your destiny.”
– Frank Outlaw
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