The Military Child Well-being Toolkit

The MCEC Military Child Well-being Toolkit has been created to provide accessible social-emotional supports and resources directly to parents, educators, school counselors, administrators, and other youth-serving professionals working with military-connected youth.

Creating Welcoming School Communities 

-Rita Pierson, Educator 

Supporting military-connected students requires understanding and responding to their unique challenges. As highly mobile military families relocate around the world, their life experiences can change dramatically by world region. Schools and local community organizations must provide timely resources to incoming military-connected students and families to ensure academic success and smooth transfers to new homes. Creating lasting positive change in education requires collaboration across multiple fields including education, medicine, technology, and government, bringing together different perspectives and innovative solutions to support military families.


Military-connected students bring a wide range of experiences, backgrounds, and perspectives to our school communities. These may include variety in: 

  • Cultural experiences from postings around the world  
  • Family structures and living arrangements  
  • Learning styles and educational backgrounds 
  • Language skills and communication needs  
  • Physical and academic support requirements 
  • Socioeconomic circumstances  
  • Religious and ethical values  

Understanding these varied experiences helps educators provide appropriate support and foster a safe learning environment for all students. 

Military students require consistent access to educational opportunities despite frequent moves and transitions. Each student’s circumstances may require different types of support to maintain academic progress. For example: 

  • Students with physical or learning disabilities may need specialized support through IEPs or 504 Plans 
  • Students transferring between different state systems may need help aligning credits 
  • Students experiencing deployment-related challenges may need additional academic support 
  • Students moving internationally may need language support 
  • Students changing schools mid-year may need help catching up in specific subjects 

Military families bring rich experiences from postings around the world. Their varied backgrounds and circumstances require schools to provide flexible, individualized support to ensure every student can succeed academically. 

Creating a sense of belonging is critical for military students’ academic success and overall well-being (Cantor, 2021; Cozza, 2014; MCEC, 2020). Research shows that students perform better academically when they feel connected to their school community. This is especially important for military-connected students who frequently change schools. 

Successful school communities: 

  • Welcome new students actively 
  • Enable full participation in school activities 
  • Provide clear access to resources and support 
  • Foster peer connections and friendships 
  • Maintain open communication with families 
  • allow students to maintain academic momentum amid frequent school changes 
  • Encourage participation in extracurricular activities 

When students feel welcomed and supported, they are better positioned to maintain academic progress despite moves and changes. 

Do you find it challenging to talk about diversity and inclusion? There is no perfect way for parents, teachers, or youth serving professionals to have these types of conversations with military kids. You may experience difficult conversations or even make a few mistakes during these conversations; however, the goal is to move forward together. Remember, it is okay to be vulnerable. Here are a few recommendations (NEA Education Justice, 2017; PBS; Sesame Street):

  • Keep it simple by explaining diversity, equity, and inclusion.
  • Follow their lead and answer their questions age-appropriately
  • Meet them at their level.
  • Ask them questions to facilitate their thinking around diversity.
  • Keep an open mind and reserve judgment.
  • Let them express themselves, freely.
  • Watch educational videos and follow up with a group discussion.
  • Read books or stories with diverse characters.
  • Watch a movie with equal representation of genders, races, and sexual orientations.
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References: 

Alvarez, B. (2019, January 22). Why social justice in school matters. NEA. https://www.nea.org/advocating-for-change/new-from-nea/why-social justice-school-matters

Cantor, P., Lerner, R. M., Pittman, K. J., Chase, P. A., & Gomperts, N. (2021). Whole-child development, learning, and thriving: A dynamic systems approach. Cambridge University Press. https://doi.org/10.1017/9781108954600

Cooperative Extension. (n.d.) Diversity, equity, and inclusion a professional development offering. eXtension Foundation Impact Collaborative.  https://dei.extension.org/

Cozza, S. J. (2014). Supporting America’s military children and families. Applied Developmental Science, 18(1), 1–4.  https://doi.org/10.1080/10888691.2014.866399 

Diversity, Equity, and Inclusion (2022). What is diversity, equity, and inclusion (DEI)?  https://dei.extension.org/

Department of Defense Education Activity (2022, January 5). Diversity, Equity, and Inclusion. https://www.dodea.edu/offices/dei/index.cfm

EDJustice (2017). Creating the space to talk about race in your school. National Education Association. https://neaedjustice.org/social-justice issues/racial-justice/talking-about-race/

Exec. Order No. 13985, 86 Fed. Reg. 7009 (Jan 20, 2021). Executive Order 13985 Exec. Order No. 14035, 86 Fed. Reg. 34593 (Jun 25, 2021). https://www.federalregister.gov/executive-order/13985

Federal Reserve. (n.d.) Diversity, equity, and inclusion. Office of the Inspector General. https://oig.federalreserve.gov/diversity-equity-inclusion.htm

Hammond, Z. (2014). Culturally responsive teaching and the brain: Promoting authentic engagement and rigor among culturally and linguistically  diverse students. Corwin Press.   

Holland, C., Sung, R., & Liu, J. (2022). Integrating Antiracism, Social Justice, and Equity Themes in a Biochemistry Class. Journal of Chemical   Education, 99(1), 202-210. https://doi.org/10.1021/acs.jchemed.1c00382 

Milken Institute of Public Health (2020, November 5). Equity vs. equality: what’s the difference? The George Washington University.  https://onlinepublichealth.gwu.edu/resources/equity-vs-equality/ 

National Academies of Sciences, Engineering, and Medicine. (2019, July 19). Strengthening the military family readiness system for a changing American Society. The National Academies Press. https://doi.org/10.17226/25380

PBS Kids: For Parents. (n.d.) Talking to Young Children About Race and Racism. PBS. https://www.pbs.org/parents/talking-about-racism 

Race Forward. (n.d.) What is racial equity? https://www.raceforward.org/about/what-is-racial-equity-key-concepts 

Race Matters Institute. (2014, April 2). Racial equality or racial equity? The difference it makes. JustPartners, Inc. https://viablefuturescenter.org/racemattersinstitute/2014/04/02/racial-equality-or-racial-equity-the-difference-it-makes/

Sensoy, Ö., & DiAngelo, R. (2009). Developing social justice literacy an open letter to our faculty colleagues. Phi Delta Kappan, 90(5), 345 352. https://doi.org/10.1177/003172170909000508 

The School of Education at Channel Islands. (n.d.) What is a “social justice framework”? https://education.csuci.edu/about/justice-c conference/faq.htm

Tong, P. K., Payne, L. A., Bond, C. A., Meadows, S. O., Lewis, J. L., Friedman, E. M., & Maksabedian Hernandez, E. J. (2018, October 18). Frequent  moves affect military family stability. RAND Corporation. https://www.rand.org/pubs/research_reports/RR2304.html 

U.S. Department of Education. (n.d.) Department of Education Equity Action Plan. Department of Education Equity Action Plan.  https://www.ed.gov/equity

Disclosure Statement: These tools are not intended to be a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always seek the advice of your physician or other qualified health providers with any questions you may have regarding a medical condition. Never disregard professional medical advice or delay in seeking it because of something you have read on this website.

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